The Steve Nam Podcast

I struggled with porn for way too long. I spent so much time with accountability partners who were stuck in the same place I was. I installed all the filters, the porn blockers.

I read my Bible more. I fasted. I prayed harder.

I confessed my sin to my girlfriend, to my family, to my close friends. I prayed to God countless times. On my knees, repenting, begging for mercy, pleading for forgiveness, asking God for a way out, for Him to deliver me.

But no matter what I asked, or what I prayed, or what I said, or how much resolve I thought I had coming out of that, I would seem to just keep going longer and longer and deeper into my addiction. And I couldn't figure it out. I'd have times where I was doing better, and then one slip would just restart the cycle all over again.

I was hoping for an answer, but I just didn't have a way that really worked. And eventually I just thought, there's no way that I'm ever going to truly be free. It's just going to be this endless struggle for the rest of my life.

And so I just started telling myself, hey look, maybe you'll never become free. Just go easy on yourself. Look, all guys deal with this.

And I told myself these lies for so many years. And whether it's rooted in the truth or in a lie, the story that you tell yourself tends to be the story that plays out. And unfortunately, this was my story.

But it doesn't have to be your story. Because your life can change forever if you're open to it. So I'm going to share with you the system that we've created to help guys quit porn and transform their lives.

And these are the same exact strategies that I used to break free from porn in my own life. And now I am dedicated to helping other men just like you to apply these methods to achieve freedom and all without resorting to the same nonsense tactics that they've been told all their lives to try. You see, my life's work is now committed to helping ordinary men create extraordinary results in their lives.

And in particular, I work with Christian men who know that their issue with porn is what is preventing them from being the man that God has called them to be. So maybe it's in their marriage, their relationship, or ability or confidence to get into a relationship, to relate well, to love and to receive love, to one day show up with integrity and congruence for their woman. They know that it's impossible to fully get there while allowing porn to remain in the picture.

Or maybe it's in their career and their productivity, where they know they could be building the business of their dreams or leveling up in their company and providing more income for themselves and for their family. But they're wasting so much time and they're blowing so much energy on their addiction that they know deep down that they'll never get there without taking care of their problem. See, when you fix the root issues, not only do you make it easier to quit porn so that you can use less effort, but you now free up so much time and energy that you can use to maximize all the other areas of your life.

And I know that sounds crazy right now. Maybe it sounds like this far-fetched, okay, let's take care of that later, Steve. But it is possible.

And I say that with deep conviction, having experienced that for myself, you really get to start to dream again and you start to feel more in line with the person you're supposed to be, with how you really want to be acting. You can handle temptation without feeling weak, without feeling scared, without feeling conflicted about it, right? You can really just approach things with a new level of confidence, with a new level of power. And you're really just more aligned with the man that you feel like you were created to be.