Forgiving Quickly When You're Offended (Clip)
I just want to be clear, quickly does not mean five minutes, quickly does not mean in an hour, quickly does not mean overnight. The point is, as much as you are able to, to pursue a place where you can say, I'm going to work on letting this go as quickly as I can. Letting it go for myself, for my own good, for the sake of working on restoring the relationship, and also being open to no matter how much somebody hurt you, everybody needs forgiveness.
When you forgive, you do yourself a service. It really helps you. Personally, I don't feel like I hold grudges often or even at all.
I don't like the feeling of feeling like there's something that I just have against somebody. Now that said, somebody might have something against me. I may have made many enemies that I don't know about, but at least on my part, the reason that I can go through life without having so much resentment is that I try as much as I can.
I'm not perfect at it, but I try to let go often, quickly.
