Ask To Fill Their Love Tank, Not Yours (Clip)
For the guys who are listening right now who think that when I ask her, how can I fill your love tank or like when you're going to ask this to your spouse that it's going to be really good for you, just remember that this is not about you. You're not asking about, you're asking it for them, right? You're trying to serve, you're being available. That demonstration, yes, in the long run or even the short term, it can come back and it can really support your marriage.
Okay, I'll say that. Yeah, so sometimes it's, can you just vacuum? Yeah. But sometimes it's like, it was a rough day.
I am so tired because I had a tantruming toddler for six hours or whatever it is. And then that creates space for connection, right? Let's talk about that.
